How do you get a boyfriend back after he dumped you? At first, the shock of being dumped will leave you – shocked. But when reality sinks in you’ll start to feel the pain and the loss and that’s when you’ll start to feel overwhelmed. If you still love your ex then it’s likely you’d want him back in your life.
I know how difficult it is to let someone go. I mean, how do you go from being in a relationship to being single? When someone you’ve been together with suddenly leaves you, it’s like having ice cold water dumped on you!
Then you find yourself asking “why did he leave in the first place?” You know he didn’t cheat and you didn’t cheat so it has to be something else. If you’re asking yourself “how do you get a boyfriend back” after he dumped you, you’re going to have to be honest with yourself. Find out why he left and what your mistakes were.
In my case, I knew I was wrong when I didn’t spend a lot of time with him. I got so used to him just being there no matter what I didn’t stop to think that he’s hurting. Sometimes, a person leaves because we’ve hurt them and we need to accept that we were wrong and hope that they could forgive us.
Have you been too clingy, too needy, too controlling, too demanding, etc? Everyone has their breaking point and maybe your man reached his. He couldn’t take your attitude and behavior anymore and when he tried talking to you, maybe you just him off and told him he was overreacting.
You know you have to apologize but are you also ready to change for the better? Are you ready to accept your mistakes? Saying you’re sorry isn’t enough. You really have to tell him that things will be different from now on. And you need to listen to him when he tells you what your mistakes were. Hearing your faults can be like a slap to the face but if you want him back, then suck it up and admit that yeah, you were wrong. Continue reading